Poison: A Novel

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Book Summary:

Jasmine, a new teacher to the school, returns to her small town to start over. She runs into old friends and rehash old situations. Friends, Lamar and Toni, help Jasmine through tumultuous circumstances and offer her true friendship to help her pull herself through chaos. Just when she thinks life will be mellow, she meets a new man and things begin to tailspin out of her control. Jasmine has to decide whether to stick with the sketchy tactics she is used to or become a better person.

Brooklyn, a successful and beautiful woman, works to build a life that she can be proud of. She owns a stunning home and has a promising career. The only thing she is missing is a family. In her heart, she wants the family she never had growing up.

Their lives intertwine in a peculiar way. Friends and lovers reveal their true selves as the ladies deal with real life situations.

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Top 10 US Music Festivals

I knew I loved music since I was very small. I was on the band from 6th grade through high school graduation. In college, I took a music appreciation course. We had to since I attended a liberal arts college. The first day of class, the professor stated that if you had an A in class, you can exempt the final exam. I knew in my heart I would exempt. And, yes, I did. I had a perfect grade in that class. Any who, I’m a music head. So, it only makes sense that I attend all the music events that I can.

Here are my favorite music festivals in no particular order:

  1. Carnival: This Soca music festival began in Trinidad and Tobago in the late 18th Century. Many believe it was a celebration of freedom and culture. The celebration has now spread to many other Caribbean countries, cities in the US, UK, Germany, and even Japan. The festival usually lasts anywhere from 3 days to a week or more. There are several fetes (parties), J’ouvert, and the parade. Check out my Miami Carnival.
  2. Dreamville: Created by J. Cole, from Fayetteville, NC, and takes place in Raleigh, NC. It’s annually held in April. Dreamville artists as well as surprise guests pop up to perform for nearly forty thousand people. The festival takes place in Dorothea Dix park and lasts two days, from noon to midnight. It’s a vibe!
  3. One Music Fest: Similar to Dreamville, this festival takes place in Central Park in Atlanta, GA. It’s usually held in October. The guests range from Afro beats to R&B to Hip Hop. They even have some old school performances. But beware, if you plan to go to Miami Carnival, it’s the same time [insert sad face].
  4. Reggae in the Park: Each summer in Atlanta, Piedmont Park becomes Reggae central. It’s a free festival in August, open to the city. There is music and dancing. Vendors line the park selling things from clothes to food to jewelry. Pack a picnic blanket and a cooler because you’re going to spend the entire day outside! Everything was irie!
  5. Rolling Loud: Created in 2015, this festival actually has many different theaters. It takes place in Miami, California, Thailand, and Germany. Unlike the others, this festival focuses solely on hip-hop (rap) music. This festival is heavily attended, so if you go, please be very careful. Some events boast up to 75k people.
  6. Broccoli Fest: It is similar to Dreamville, but takes place in July. This festival takes place in DC at RFK stadium. The lineup is similar to Dreamville, as well. There is a combination of R&B and hip hop acts. Last year, it took place in May. I wonder why they moved it to July. Interesting.
  7. Something in the Water: This festival, created by Pharrell, began in Virginia Beach. Then, it moved to DC, but now it’s back in Virginia Beach. Previously, the city complained about the noise and the crowd. Plus, his cousin was murdered by the police. This caused friction, obviously. But, I guess they missed the money and felt bad about their misgivings, so deals were made to bring it back. The crowd is typically around 50K. The line up is a little more diverse in musical genre range than Broccoli, Dreamville, and Rolling Loud. Last year, he had Dave Matthews Band and Calvin Harris, among others.
  8. Roots Picnic: This festival, as it name indicates, was created by the Philly natives The Roots. It takes place in Philadelphia, PA and happens in June. It is a whole vibe. Music includes hip hop, jazz, and R&B. Definitely bring your picnic blanket and friends to chill in the park the entire day. Not only do they have music, they also have a small club (the DJs are dope) and an area for podcasts. They average between 50k to 60k guests. But, it’s still a good time.
  9. Beale Street Music Festival: BSMF, part of Memphis in May, takes place in May in the beautiful city of Memphis, TN and runs for three days. Like Something in the Water, the musical genre is diverse; ranging from Cardi B to Miley Cyrus. This is one of the longest running music festivals, dating back to 1990. Of course it has grown over the years. Being that this is Tennessee, make sure to pack a poncho or raincoat to attend this festival.
  10. Coachella: This festival, based in Indio, California takes place over two weekends in April. At this particular festival, people often camp out. It began in 1999. The biggest year, in my opinion, was when Beyonce headlined. This festival is probably the most well known in the US, which boasts an attendance of 750,000 people. That is insane! What makes this festival interesting is the installations: Ferris wheels, Instagram worthy sites, and world famous eateries.

If you ever want to see a music festival gone wrong, make sure to check out the Fyre Festival documentary on Netflix. It was organized by Ja Rule and a fake investor, Billy McFarland. You will be shocked!

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We are the Streetz Legends

A few months ago, I read ‘Boss Up’ by Rick Ross and it made me crave his music so badly. I would re-listen to songs that had come out years ago. I had an opportunity to see him in 2021 at Afronation in Puerto Rico, but it was so late. Plus, I was completely devastated because they used him to fill the slot for Burna Boy. If I came to an Afrobeat concert, I want to hear Afrobeats, not a regular rapper. To see video footage, be sure to visit me on IG, YouTube, or TikTok.

So, I scrounged the internet for any upcoming concerts. There weren’t any, so I added myself to the subscribe list of Ticketmaster/Live Nation. I wanted to be first in line when something popped up. Well, it popped up: Legends of the Streetz tour.

Not only did the tickets include Rick Ross, but Jadakiss, Gucci Mane, Trina, Jeezy, and 2CHAINZ. It was in Greensboro, but that’s a hop, skip, and a jump away from Charlotte. So, I booked it.

I stayed at Denim Hotel; it’s a cute little boutique hotel about 7 minutes away from the Coliseum. The theme is denim, so all of their decor is blue jean material. You get free drinks at check-in. And, they serve breakfast, have free wifi, and the location is quiet and safe. Free parking! It’s absolutely adorable and I highly recommend it!

I had been sitting on pins and needles waiting for this show. I went solo because I don’t have time to convince people to go with me. I also went to see Burna Boy solo in Orlando and had a fantastic time!

Quick story: my students don’t know who Burna Boy or Rick Ross is 🤦🏾‍♀️

Anyway…..here’s my review.

The show was very cost effective. I appreciate that, but I also realized why. There were no dancers or background decorations. It was literally just the artist, the DJ, and screens that projected their pictures and names. At other concerts I’ve been to, there were drum circles, ladies that twerked, ladies that dressed like praise dancers in their white linens, and sexy men to twirl female singers around. This was no show. I loved the songs! There was one photo booth for pictures. I didn’t try the food, and I didn’t need drinks since my hotel covered that. Great nostalgia, but no showcase by any means.

Quick question, is Trina pregnant? She wore this big dress and barely danced at all.

The most entertaining parts were from the audience. I usually go to a different type of performance, so this was new to me. People all around me were blazing up. Literally, rolling right there next to me. I bumped him by accident and got nervous because he almost dropped his igbo. I apologized profusely.

In the VIP section, two girls starting brawling. It was so distracting that 2CHAINZ stopped his show to address it. The girls were promptly escorted out. What a waste of money for them.

Lastly, I sat beside the cutest, funniest girl in the arena. She was there solo too. We chatted and laughed throughout the show. Ironically, we were both from Charlotte. So, of course I got her info. She’s a concert fanatic too!

Overall, I’d give the show a six out of ten. I could be biased because I attend a plethora of music events (Dreamville, Roots Picnic, Carnival), but I think I know a good show. Next up, Usher in Vegas. I can’t wait!

BALLROOM

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I was scrolling on Instagram, as I usually do to find fire events in the city for my group Queens of Charlotte, when I happened upon a flyer by the one and only Davita Galloway. If you don’t know, not sure how you wouldn’t if you live here in Charlotte, she is the GOAT. She is a fashionista who hosts the BEST events in Charlotte. She is the co-owner of Dupp & Swat with her brother. Let me tell you something, if you haven’t been to one of their events or their space, you are definitely missing out. But, I digress. 

So, I saw the flyer for a fashion show at The Mint. Another fabulous establishment. FYI, they have free events each Wednesday. And, if you’re a BOA cardholder, they offer random free visits throughout the year. The Mint Museum is Charlotte’s version of New York’s Met. Of course, I immediately replied, “In there like swimwear.” Not really, I wrote, “I cannot wait.” I try to look semi-professional online.

So, I informed my girls and we made a plan to attend. Last year, I attended Davita’s fashion show Haute Asiko and had to sit close to the middle because I arrived sorta late. I learned my lesson. I arrived a solid thirty minutes early. And, I’m so glad I did. There were only two rows of seats and half of them were reserved. Plus, I was wearing these beautiful boots. They’re gorgeous, but I cannot stand up for long in them. 

The show began with a fabulous introduction and a spirited host. The thing I loved about him the most was, he taught us about respect, dance, and the proper vernacular for the BALLROOM. Here’s what I picked up. The different groups were known as houses. There were five or six houses there last night. The host’s house was known as Teflar. If you’ve ever watched ‘Pose’ on FX, then you’d understand the culture a little more. He did throw out some other shows that explained it better, but I cannot remember their titles. I should have written it down like he suggested. 

He taught us that the dance where a person falls flat on their back with one leg slightly angled up is called a dip, not a death drop. Next, he taught us the five elements of Vogue: catwalk, duckwalks, hands, spins and dips, and floor performance. For each element, he had the houses come out and demonstrate. It was fantastic. 

At the end of the night, the host had a panel where guests could ask questions to leaders in the industry. It was so insightful to get inside knowledge of this aspect of life.

A bonus, I met DJ Fannie Mae. Other bonus, I saw Dutchess from Black Ink Crew and Ohavia, also known as O. I had such a fabulous time! Make sure to support the arts, physically and fiscally.

Thanks for continuing to read about my adventures. If you hear about an event or class that I should take, leave it in the comments!

TWERK

A few weeks ago, I was on Beyonce’s internet searching for a Tabata class. I frequently like to incorporate new practices into my fitness routine to keep it spicy and new.

Last week, I took a soca fit class. So, I assumed this would be similar. I also assumed since I’m relatively fit, it would be a breeze. It was not, but it was fun. I had no idea that I had not been using certain muscles that I used today [Insert the correct names for booty and thigh muscles].

Listen, back to my original thought, I was searching for a new fitness class and I stumbled upon this class. Soulaira is a fitness studio located in Atlanta. She specializes in twerk, yoga, pilates, and climax control. She also has merch on her website, if you’re interested.

The class began with a warm up and introduction of how to twerk. I am so glad she gave the fundamentals. I realized that the movements I was doing in the club was not right. I was using the wrong muscles and technique.

Next, she taught us several routines that included booty pop, wining, thrust, and how to walk in heels.

Listen, this class wore me out. I think every woman in America should take this class. You will learn to be sexy, how to move properly, and to love yourself. This is the most intense, fun work out you will ever do!

She ended the class with positive affirmations. I could literally feel my spirit getting lifted. This was an entirely enlightening experience. Pardon my alliteration. I guess that’s my inner English teacher coming out.

Are there any other fitness classes you’d like to see me participate in? Post it in the comments!

Poison: Book Signing and Tea Party

Check out “Poison Book Signing and Tea Party” on Eventbrite!

Date: Sat, Mar 25 • 12:00 PM EDT

Location: 1200 Central Avenue, Charlotte, NC

Poison Book Signing and Tea Party live

Book Summary:

Jasmine, a new teacher to the school, returns to her small town to start over. She runs into old friends and rehash old situations. Friends, Lamar and Toni, help Jasmine through tumultuous circumstances and offer her true friendship to help her pull herself through chaos. Just when she thinks life will be mellow, she meets a new man and things begin to tailspin out of her control. Jasmine has to decide whether to stick with the sketchy tactics she is used to or become a better person.

Brooklyn, a successful and beautiful woman, works to build a life that she can be proud of. She owns a stunning home and has a promising career. The only thing she is missing is a family. In her heart, she wants the family she never had growing up.

Their lives intertwine in a peculiar way. Friends and lovers reveal their true selves as the ladies deal with real life situations.

Caribbean Reads for this Year!

Since finding out that my grandad is Jamaican, and after being immersed in part of the Caribbean culture with Carnival, I have been obsessing over ways to learn more about my culture and my roots. As if a sign from God, one of my favorite book pages on Instagram posted several book challenges we should participate in this year. One of her slides featured Caribbean books. And, OMG!!! I was like, “Duh, why didn’t I think of that?”

So, I went on a quest to find several books written by Caribbean authors to feed my book-eater appetite. I started with the most obvious book, “Dear Haiti, Love Alaine.” I started this book in the fall, but life got busy, so I didn’t finish. I picked it back up this week to finish, and I’m so glad I did.

Anyway, here are a few Caribbean books I plan to consume over the next few months:

Dear Haiti, Love Alaine

Summary: Alaine Beauparlant has heard about Haiti all her life…

But the stories were always passed down from her dad—and her mom, when she wasn’t too busy with her high-profile newscaster gig. But when Alaine’s life goes a bit sideways, it’s time to finally visit Haiti herself.

What she learns about Haiti’s proud history as the world’s first black republic (with its even prouder people) is one thing, but what she learns about her own family is another. Suddenly, the secrets Alaine’s mom has been keeping, including a family curse that has spanned generations, can no longer be avoided.

It’s a lot to handle, without even mentioning that Alaine is also working for her aunt’s nonprofit, which sends underprivileged kids to school and boasts one annoyingly charming intern.

Source: Amazon

Women Writing Resistance

Summary: Essays on Latinx and Caribbean identity and on globalization by renowned women writers, including Julia Alvarez, Edwidge Danticat, and Jamaica Kincaid

Women Writing Resistance- Essays on Latin America and the Caribbean gathers the voices of sixteen acclaimed writer-activists for a one-of-a-kind collection. Through poetry and essays, writers from the Anglophone, Hispanic, and Francophone Caribbean, including Puertorriquenas and Cubanas, grapple with their hybrid American political identities. Gloria Anzaldoa , the founder of Chicana queer theory; Rigoberta Mencho , the first Indigenous person to win a Nobel Peace Prize; and Michelle Cliff , a searing and poignant chronicler of colonialism and racism, among many others, highlight how women can collaborate across class, race, and nationality to lead a new wave of resistance against neoliberalism, patriarchy, state terrorism, and white supremacy.

Source: Charlotte Meck Library

Facing the Sun

Summary: Told from multiple viewpoints, follows teenaged friends Nia, KeeKee, Faith, and Eve as they experience unexpected life changes the summer a hotel developer purchases their Caribbean community’s beloved beach.

Source: Charlotte Meck Library

Learning to Breathe

Summary: Sixteen-year-old Indy, sent to live with relatives in Nassau, struggles to conceal that she is pregnant by rape. Turned out by her aunt, completely broke with only a hand-me-down pregnancy book as a resource, Indy desperately looks for a safe space to call home. A yoga retreat might be the place. But Indy is about to discover that home is more just four walls and a roof– it’s the people she chooses to share it with.

Source: Amazon

Hurricane Summer

Summary: Tilla has spent her entire life trying to make her father love her. But every six months, he leaves their family and returns to his true home: the island of Jamaica.

When Tilla’s mother tells her she’ll be spending the summer on the island, Tilla dreads the idea of seeing him again, but longs to discover what life in Jamaica has always held for him.

In an unexpected turn of events, Tilla is forced to face the storm that unravels in her own life as she learns about the dark secrets that lie beyond the veil of paradise—all in the midst of an impending hurricane.

Hurricane Summer is a powerful coming of age story that deals with colorism, classism, young love, the father-daughter dynamic—and what it means to discover your own voice in the center of complete destruction.

Source: Goodreads

The Star Side of Bird Hill

Two sisters are suddenly sent from their home in Brooklyn to Barbados to live with their grandmother, in Naomi Jackson’s stunning debut novel
                                          
This lyrical novel of community, betrayal, and love centers on an unforgettable matriarchal family in Barbados. Two sisters, ages ten and sixteen, are exiled from Brooklyn to Bird Hill in Barbados after their mother can no longer care for them. The young Phaedra and her older sister, Dionne, live for the summer of 1989 with their grandmother Hyacinth, a midwife and practitioner of the local spiritual practice of obeah.
 
Dionne spends the summer in search of love, testing her grandmother’s limits, and wanting to go home. Phaedra explores Bird Hill, where her family has lived for generations, accompanies her grandmother in her role as a midwife, and investigates their mother’s mysterious life.
 
This tautly paced coming-of-age story builds to a crisis when the father they barely know comes to Bird Hill to reclaim his daughters, and both Phaedra and Dionne must choose between the Brooklyn they once knew and loved or the Barbados of their family.
 
Naomi Jackson’s Barbados and her characters are singular, especially the wise Hyacinth and the heartbreaking young Phaedra, who is coming into her own as a young woman amid the tumult of her family.

Source: Amazon

Patsy: A Novel

A beautifully layered portrait of motherhood, immigration, and the sacrifices we make in the name of love from award-winning novelist Nicole Dennis-Benn.Heralded for writing “deeply memorable . . . women” (Jennifer Senior, New York Times), Nicole Dennis-Benn introduces readers to an unforgettable heroine for our times: the eponymous Patsy, who leaves her young daughter behind in Jamaica to follow Cicely, her oldest friend, to New York. Beating with the pulse of a long-withheld confession and peppered with lilting patois, Patsy gives voice to a woman who looks to America for the opportunity to love whomever she chooses, bravely putting herself first. But to survive as an undocumented immigrant, Patsy is forced to work as a nanny, while back in Jamaica her daughter, Tru, ironically struggles to understand why she was left behind. Greeted with international critical acclaim from readers who, at last, saw themselves represented in Patsy, this astonishing novel “fills a literary void with compassion, complexity and tenderness” (Joshunda Sanders, Time), offering up a vital portrait of the chasms between selfhood and motherhood, the American dream and reality.

Source: Amazon

Where There are Monsters

In this powerfully engaging collection of short stories, Breanne Mc Ivor lifts the tropes and characters of Caribbean folklore and places them among the concrete, glass and heat of a hectic, recognizable, crime-ridden Trinidad. These are not simply modern or modernised folktales, but beautifully crafted, fully formed contemporary stories by a hugely talented writer who uses them as narrative vehicles to address weighty questions about human nature and Trinidadian society. What choice is there for a young man, besotted with an upperclass woman, when what stands between him and her, is the humiliating poverty he’s trapped in? What monster does he embrace to break out of his situation? To what extent do we also become victims of the violence we inflict on others? A young man, consumed by his inner monster – a Loup Garou – destroys the woman whose love sustains him. A mother comes face to face with a daughter who is about to marry the kind of man who, she believes, would turn out to be a monster like her daughters father. In The Cannibal of Santa Cruz, a young woman grows into recognising and accepting the flesh-loving monster which lives in her.

Source: Amazon

Clap When You Land

In a novel-in-verse that brims with grief and love, National Book Award-winning and New York Times bestselling author Elizabeth Acevedo writes about the devastation of loss, the difficulty of forgiveness, and the bittersweet bonds that shape our lives.

Camino Rios lives for the summers when her father visits her in the Dominican Republic. But this time, on the day when his plane is supposed to land, Camino arrives at the airport to see crowds of crying people…

In New York City, Yahaira Rios is called to the principal’s office, where her mother is waiting to tell her that her father, her hero, has died in a plane crash.

Separated by distance—and Papi’s secrets—the two girls are forced to face a new reality in which their father is dead and their lives are forever altered.

And then, when it seems like they’ve lost everything of their father, they learn of each other. 

Source: Amazon

How to Love a Jamaican

Tenderness and cruelty, loyalty and betrayal, ambition and regret – Alexia Arthurs navigates these tensions to extraordinary effect in her debut collection about Jamaican immigrants and their families back home. Sweeping from close-knit island communities to the streets of New York City and Midwestern university towns, these eleven stories form a portrait of a nation, a people, and a way of life.

In ‘Light Skinned Girls and Kelly Rowlands’, an NYU student befriends a fellow Jamaican whose privileged West Coast upbringing has blinded her to the hard realities of race. In ‘Mash Up Love’, a twin’s chance sighting of his estranged brother – the prodigal son of the family – stirs up unresolved feelings of resentment. In ‘Bad Behavior’, a mother and father leave their wild teenage daughter with her grandmother in Jamaica, hoping the old ways will straighten her out. In ‘Mermaid River’, a Jamaican teenage boy is reunited with his mother in New York after eight years apart. In ‘The Ghost of Jia Yi’, a recently murdered international student haunts a despairing Jamaican athlete recruited to an Iowa college. And in ‘Shirley from a Small Place’, a world-famous pop star retreats to her mother’s big new house in Jamaica, which still holds the power to restore something vital.

The winner of the Paris Review’s Plimpton Prize for ‘Bad Behavior’, Alexia Arthurs emerges in this vibrant, lyrical, intimate collection as one of fiction’s most dynamic and essential young authors.

Source: Amazon

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New Year Resolutions

Every year, people ask you about your New Year Resolutions.

This year, I decided to rename it. This is not my New Year Resolution. More so, goals I would like to accomplish next year. When I look back over the past two years, I am utterly grateful. I’m grateful for all of the people who encourage me and brainstorm new ideas with me.

I’ve met so many wonderful people. And, I know it’s against thug code, but I love y’all. I’m so serious. Sometimes, I sit with my friends in cars or in a lounge and we just think about all the ways we can improve in our careers, businesses, and side hustles.

In 2022, I published two books. I also created a social networking group here in Charlotte. I have made countless friendships. I changed careers (sort of). And lastly, I have found a community of people to travel and party with.

So, for next year, I plan to continue to grow my social network. I’d like to publish a few more books and host book signings. I’d love to turn my books into movies or tv shows. I’d like to continue growing my podcast. And, lastly, I’d like to continue to be a woman who creates new goals and achieve them.

What’s your plan for 2023? Comment below!

CLT Farmer’s Markets

Southend

Takes place each Saturday behind Atherton Mall off of South Boulevard. It parallels the rail trail. When I tell you it’s beautiful out there. You’ll feel like you’re in a Hallmark movie. The vendors sell unique crafts and treats. It’s child and pet friendly. During the holidays, they block off the street,and add a DJ and more vendors. The market takes up several blocks.

Camp North End

Happens each Wednesday. The vendors are stationed near the food court at the same space the Mad Mile Run Club meets on Tuesdays. There aren’t quite as many vendors as South End, but there are still great finds. I especially love the juice guy! Plus, it’s in the afternoon (around 4pm), so you can grab food and peruse. It’s a great way to spend the afternoon.

Uptown

This one also takes place on Saturday morning and has a decent amount of vendors. It’s in the parking lot near a church off of South Boulevard near the Nascar Museum. I love that there are tons of food vendors. You can grab a fresh cup of coffee and a pastry while you check out the other vendors. We always buy fresh produce and honey. They also have fresh meat and fish.The parking is free, which is great for Uptown.

Rosa Park’s Farmers Market

Runs June through September at the West Complex off of W. Trade St. near Uptown on Tuesdays from 3-7pm. It’s jammed packed with food demonstrations, giveaways, entertainment, and a plethora of vendors. They accept all forms of payment, including SNAP/EBT. Parking is across the street in the parking garage (Free).

Charlotte Regional Farmers Market

This is by far the largest farmer’s market in Charlotte (not including flea markets). There are four large stalls filled to the brim with multiple vendors. They have tons of produce, meat, flowers, etc. I’ve even seen a yellow watermelon. There are folks who sell homemade soap and body butters. The bonus, in the parking lot, there are food trucks. I’ve seen Jamaican food and a lady who makes mini-donuts. It’s packed each Saturday, but there’s tons of parking.

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